Good Reads: The No Brainer Wardrobe — Part 3

This is Part 3 in a 3-part review of The No Brainer Wardrobe by Hayley Morgan. Part 1 covers how to identify the core of your wardrobe, and Part 2 helps with purging those clothes that are more of a hindrance than a help. Now we’re ready to tackle the shoes!

My shoes tend to spill out of my closet. They refuse to be contained. This is a chronic condition, so I was excited to do some purging and organizing. Can you relate?

Following the No Brainer Wardrobe approach, I swept all my shoes in a pile. Here’s part of the pile.

I found some pairs hidden in the dark corners that I hadn’t seen in a long time. Well, hello, silver sandals!

The pile contained everything from shoes still new in the box to some very worn old soles.

Sorting out shoes is more emotional for me than going through clothes. These dainty sandals aren’t comfortable, but I wore them to walk the aisle at my wedding. How could I part with these?

These hurt my feet, but they are Guess brand and so appealing. How could I put these in the discard pile?

After much deliberation, I was able to weed out what I wouldn’t wear because they induce pain, and what I really didn’t need. How many pairs of silver sandals could I wear in one summer?

The result? Shoes neatly contained inside the closet doors (at least for now). The best part is that, with the unwearable pairs gone, I can choose what to put on faster, with less fuss.

All the thinking about shoes brought to my mind so many stories of people who have no shoes to wear. Some of my give-away shoes were new, so donation options were open. Here are a couple of suggestions, if you want to give away shoes you bought and didn’t wear. Of course, you can always buy and donate, too.

Shoes for Kids: Started by a young lady whose parents travel with Compassion; she saw firsthand in Kenya children who didn’t have shoes. She came home and did something about it. Check out how her dream to give away shoes has come true.

Soles 4 Souls: Collects shoes for those in need; my church sponsored a drive for this organization.

If you’re looking for new shoes, check out the growing number of styles offered by Toms. With every pair you purchase, Toms will give a new pair of shoes to a child in need.

I hope you’ve had fun looking at your wardrobe in a new way!

 

 

 

 

 

To order Hayley’s book, just click the cover image. Note: This book has been such a help to me, so I signed up to be an affiliate. First time I’m trying this because I believe Hayley’s suggestions will help you, too!

The Joys of June

June in San Diego is decorated by these blooms, commonly known as Lily of the Nile.

Each year when these open, I think back to one June when our yard had no purple. Middle school kids hung out in our neighborhood with my children. They often came inside for cold drinks and snacks. They watched movies. They played games. They skateboarded in the backyard. They sat on the front curb and talked. We loved having them around, getting to know them. But when we went on a trip in early June of that year, these kids decided to play a joke on us. They cut off every purple bloom in its infancy.

We came home to tall stalks without buds. We couldn’t undo the swift destruction. A sad emptiness hung in the yard all through June. We had to wait a whole year to enjoy the flowers again.

This year the crop is healthy. Our neighborhood is alive with purple, waving in the wind.

These flowers, also known as agapanthus, won’t last long, which makes me appreciate them even more. And they are fragile, without guarantee, which makes me thankful every time I see them that they are here now, this particular June.

Joy comes. Joy can be cut off in an instant. One phone call, one accident, one sentence. A job is over, a relationship cut off too soon, a budding friendship never fully opens. The wait for joy to return may be lengthy and inevitable.

We don’t know how long joy will wave in the wind. Rather than worry about that, I would like to learn better to embrace the day. Enjoy what is here now; really see the beauty around me and let it decorate my life. I recently read this: Embrace the day; it may return the favor (John Ortberg). I’ve been thinking about what that looks like. One picture that comes to mind is taking in the beauty of the Lily of the Nile this season, not letting a day go by without noticing how their elegance brightens and lightens my path.

How about you? What reminds you to take joy in each day? Whatever it may be, I hope you embrace joy today!

 

 

 

 

Linking up with Flower Art Friday, Sweet Shot Tuesday and Texture Tuesday. Photos were processed with Kim Klassen’s textures Shine, And Then Some, Phoebe, and Let Go.

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Good Reads: The No Brainer Wardbrobe — Part 2


This is Part 2 in a 3-part review of The No Brainer Wardrobe by Hayley Morgan. If you missed the first post, which is an introduction and Step One, you can read it here.

Time for Step Two: Purging Your Clothes! Here’s what inspired me to take action and organize my crammed closet—at once. I found this dress on sale.

It has polka dots, which make me smile, so I couldn’t leave it in the store. But I couldn’t jam it in my closet, either. It needs some space to hang and breathe and look cute. So here goes!

First, writes Hayley, take everything out of your closet so you can see what you actually have in there. Then start sorting.

Keeping in mind what I learned from identifying my core wardrobe of go-to clothes, as well as figuring out what doesn’t work well for me, this process turned out to be far less complicated than I imagined. The pile of clothes that I continually pass over began to form.

(My cat Emily is definitely not part of the reject pile; she just thought it was a great place for a nap.)

And grow.

My core clothes and others in my favored colors stacked up in the “keep” pile, then I hung these back up. Here’s the top and bottom of the finished closet, cram-free.

What I learned from this:

Motivation matters. The bottom-line motivation for the No Brainer approach is making time for more of what I have a passion to do in life. I have tried cleaning out my closet using methods such as counting how many items I own and the one-in-one-out rule. Nothing has motivated me as much as being able to focus more on reading, writing, photography, hiking, visiting with friends and family.

Bag up the reject pile, then wait a bit. I felt freer to choose the reject pile knowing I was going to give myself time to rethink decisions. I grabbed a faded red sweat jacket out of the bags the next morning and I’ve worn it several times since. It’s okay to have second thoughts. So far, I haven’t missed anything else that left my closet that day. I couldn’t even tell you most of the items that are gone.

If I don’t feel good wearing something, it doesn’t need to stay in my closet. This week I wore a purple top (love the color) that is almost new, bought on sale (a good deal) that made me feel frumpy. Instead of keeping it, I’m going to wash it and pass it on to someone who will enjoy wearing it. This goes against my thrifty mindset, but I’m learning to lean towards what I actually like wearing instead of wearing everything I purchase until it’s worn out. I would rather have fewer items I love than a crammed closet.

Your turn! Set aside a bit of time and try this and let us know how it goes!

 

 

 

 

Coming up:

Part Three — Purging Your Shoes

To order Hayley’s book, just click the cover image. Note: This book has been such a help to me, so I signed up to be an affiliate. First time I’m trying this because I believe Hayley’s suggestions will help you, too!

Daisies and Love

When you see a daisy, do you think of old game, “He loves me, he loves me not”? Daisies, with their long, thin petals arranged in circles, are perfect for this. We can attempt to discern the truth about someone’s love for us by going petal by petal until we reach the verdict.

I remember relying on the daisies during my high school days, when romance was intense, uncertain, emotional, and short-lived. Of course, I knew even at that impressionable young age that daisies weren’t really the final say about whether someone really loved me.

Daisies are blooming happily this spring, and I’ve been thinking about the “loves me, loves me not” aspect of these flowers. I’m thankful that I have people in my life whose love I don’t question. My husband has stood by me through years of ups and downs. My mother’s concern for me is constant. My children have shown they love me no matter what. I’m also blessed with friends who have known me since we walked the halls of high school together and picked off petals of daisies and told each other our deepest hopes for the future.

When you see daisies this year gently blowing in the warm breeze, take a moment to think about who loves you unconditionally. Friends, family, mentors, neighbors — who can you bank on to care? If we can come up with even one name, we have much to be thankful for. We are blessed.

Who would you say is a “loves me no matter what” person in your life?

 

 

 

 

Linking up with Sweet Shot Tuesday, Inspired Tuesday, and Texture Tuesday. The light purple daisy is edited with Kim Klassen’s texture, Stamped Softly.

 

 

 

Good Reads: The No Brainer Wardrobe

Raise your hand if you have plenty of time to do all you’d like to each day. No? Me neither. I’m always struggling to fit more of what I enjoy into each day. One place I spend too much time in is the bursting-closet-can’t-figure-out-what-to-wear area of life. If I could simplify getting dressed, shopping for clothes, and care of clothes, I would have more precious time to do things I really want to do.

Recently I discovered an ebook that’s really helped me. It’s The No Brainer Wardrobe, written by Hayley Morgan, a mother of youngsters who wants exactly what I’m after — more time to devote to what we’re passionate about, streamlining the parts of life that don’t move us toward that goal. Like pondering too long in front of the closet each morning.

“How many items do you own? Is your closet so stuffed you can’t even see the whole garment without taking it out? Is it so disorganized that you can’t find the shirt you’re thinking of ? Is it full of clothes that you never wear and doubtfully will again? (Now I’m raising my hand high.) If so, you are like many women.”

In simple steps, The No Brainer Wardrobe helps you pare down your closet to a more manageable level. The book is chock full of practical ideas. We’ll be looking at three steps I’ve followed so far. Try them and see if these will help you slash those “What should I wear today?” moments. I’m seeing an improvement already.

Step One: “Identify 10 pieces you love and wear often. Think about why these are your go-to clothes. Color, fit, fabric, style, a combination of these?”

I approached this step as “What would I take to a desert island if I could grab only 10 items from my closet?” Well, at least a desert island where I still do go to my office job. Surprisingly, this list came quickly. Here are my top 10:

“Then look for 10 items in your closet that you just don’t feel comfortable wearing. Why? Color, fit, fabric, style, a combination?”

Color is something I have down. My closet is red, pink, purple and blue with basics of black and gray. I own nothing green, yellow, orange, or brown. Your closet may be the opposite. You may own every color of the rainbow. These colors may all be found in just one dress. You may love to experiment with color.

This exercise made me realize I struggle more with choosing styles and fit. Here my success rate is not always great. Focusing on the items I love and those that I avoid showed me that sometimes I go for a trend that just isn’t “me,” wear the cute-on-the-hanger item once, and then pass it by forever after.

When you’ve figured out what works best in your choices, then you can more efficiently plan your future shopping. If one of your favorites is wearing out, keep an eye out to replace it. My flared black skirt is so old it’s literally falling apart; I can’t include it in my top 10 because it should be retired; so if I’m in a store, I’ll be looking for a replacement. Collect styles you like on Pinterest and figure out what it is you like about them.

Meanwhile, you can place your core items front and center to grab on those mornings when the coffee hasn’t quite kicked in and you need to dress in a hurry.

So, your turn!

Take a few minutes and jot down or mentally list your top 10 clothing items.

Bonus step: Add a second-tier 10 to get an even better idea of what pieces are your go-to clothes. This helped me see more clearly what to keep, what to purge, and what to add.

Then think about 5 items of clothing that hang in your closet that you continually pass over. Figure out why — color, fit, style, all of these? Give them to someone who will enjoy wearing them.

A few sessions of analyzing what you have now, what is only confusing you by hanging in your closet, and what you want to add someday will truly give you more time to enjoy life! Tell us in the comments how it goes!

 

 

 

 

Coming up:

Step Two: Purging Your Closet — the Clothes

Step Three: Purging Your Closet — the Shoes

To order Hayley’s book, just click the cover image. Note: This book has been such a help to me, so I signed up to be an affiliate. First time I’m trying this because I believe Hayley’s suggestions will help you, too!

Of Men and Rocks and Mountains

Rocks are synonymous with strength. I love being in the presence of majestic rises of rock that tower above me. A short hike up a steep path near my home rewarded me with this view yesterday:

Look at the fascinating shapes of these rounded piles of rock, lined up like sentries in the sky.

I think these rocks are poetic:

Novelist Jane Austen put these words in mouth of her character Elizabeth in Pride and Prejudice: “What are men to rocks and mountains?” How can mere mortals compare to the grandeur of rock, of mountains?

The Bible talks of God as our rock: “My soul finds rest in God alone; my salvation comes from him. He alone is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will never be shaken.” (Psalm 61)

Near these sheer walls of rocks in my little part of the world are some rocks that speak of a role beyond shelter, majesty, beauty. These rocks had a part in the nourishment of the people who lived along the river for hundreds of years. They are grinding rocks. See the indentations on the rock face?

Sitting by river, the women ground acorns and berries on these rocks as they chatted and watched children scamper about. You can imagine the whole happy, life-sustaining scene, standing today on these grinding rocks. Through time, through serving in the preparation of countless meals, the rocks wore down. These rocks have a role reserved for only a few of their granite relatives.

Whether they speak of beauty, shelter, or everyday activities like food preparation, rocks inspire us to view time backward and forward, to see our lives in the context of something greater, something that existed before we were born and something that will be here after us, something the towers over us while also providing a firm place to stand on.

How about you? Where have you seen rocks and mountains that inspired you?

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Allowing Us to Dream

What have you read lately that has reached inside you and showed you life more clearly? Books and stories and writings capture the past so that we can understand the present in a new light.

 

Books can also encourage us to dream. One of my favorites is The Little Prince, which is about imagination and refusing to lose the ability to create when we grow up. This classic story reminds us to cultivate our dreams no matter who may laugh and tell us it can’t be done. This is also a central message of the biography of Steve Jobs, which I recently read. His life can be characterized by the Apple motto, Think Different. One book is fiction and fairy tale; one is biography; both convince us to live as bold imaginers.

 Here are the books currently on my nightstand.

In this mixture of fiction and non-fiction, I’m finding all these to be eye-opening. Kisses from Katie is about a young woman who moves from Tennessee to Uganda and loves and adopts orphans. She genuinely feels drawn toward every child she sees. This was on my mind today during a hike by the local river when two adorable girls called to me to see the lizard on the rock. Their mother was having no part of it, but inspired by Katie, I caught the enthusiasm in the children’s voices and climbed down the trail to wonder with them at the little lizard doing push-ups in the sun. Yesterday, before reading Katie’s book, I may not have made the effort to interact with these adorable young strangers.

Books change our hearts. They paint pictures of worlds long gone, introduce us to people who inspire us, and awaken possibilities to pursue.

What book or story has moved you to the core? Let us know in the comments so we can build our reading lists! If you want some recommendations, here are some of the books I’ve read this year, all well worth checking out:

Steve Jobs by Walter Isaacson

Elegance of the HedgeHog by Muriel Barbery

Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Spy by John LeCarre

All Is Grace by Brennan Manning

Catching Fire and Mockingjay by Suzanne Collins

You’re Already Amazing by Holley Gerth

What’s on your list?

 

 

 

 

Linking up with Sweet Shot Tuesday and Texture Tuesdays. Photos are processed with a layer of Kim Klassen’s Be Still texture.

 

 

 

 

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